WASHINGTON, D.C. — For decades, the conversation surrounding campus sexual assault has primarily focused on the college environment itself—the culture of Greek life, the role of alcohol, and the efficacy of university disciplinary procedures. However, a groundbreaking new report from the national advocacy organization It’s On Us suggests that the battle against sexual violence begins long before a student receives their first dorm room key.
The report, titled The Preparation Problem: How the System Ignores Young Men’s Sex Education Needs, argues that the current landscape of American sex education is fundamentally failing young men. By providing inconsistent, incomplete, or entirely absent instruction on consent, bodily autonomy, and healthy relationships, the educational system is leaving incoming college men ill-equipped to navigate the complexities of interpersonal dynamics, ultimately complicating efforts to prevent sexual assault on campus.
The Foundation of the Problem: A Systemic Vacuum
The research, released today by It’s On Us, highlights a troubling disconnect. While universities are increasingly implementing mandatory sexual assault prevention programming, those programs often assume a baseline level of knowledge regarding consent and healthy communication that many students simply do not possess.
The study, which surveyed over 1,000 college-aged men, found that the "preparation problem" is not merely an academic oversight but a societal failure. According to the findings, the primary sources of sexual information for many young men remain informal and often problematic: popular media, peer groups, and an absence of guidance from trusted adult mentors.
When sex education is provided in a formal school setting, it is often restricted to biological instruction or abstinence-only curricula that avoid the nuances of healthy relationship dynamics. This leaves a void that is frequently filled by harmful cultural narratives, ultimately creating a barrier for college administrators trying to instill a culture of consent.
Chronology of an Advocacy Movement
To understand the significance of this report, one must look at the evolution of It’s On Us. Launched in 2014 as an initiative of the Obama-Biden White House, the organization was created to fundamentally shift the way the country addresses sexual violence.
- 2014: It’s On Us is founded, moving the needle from a "victim-blaming" narrative to a culture of bystander intervention and shared responsibility.
- 2020-2023: The organization shifts its focus toward deeper demographic analysis, recognizing that a "one-size-fits-all" approach to prevention is insufficient.
- 2024: Following the publication of Prevention is a Team Sport, which identified that Black and LGBTQ+ men in collegiate athletics showed higher levels of proficiency in identifying healthy relationships, the organization launched an intensive study to see how these specific demographics’ formative educational experiences shaped their current viewpoints.
- Present Day: The release of The Preparation Problem serves as the culmination of this research, offering a blueprint for how institutions—from K-12 school boards to university administrations—must overhaul their approach to sex education to address the root causes of sexual violence.
Data-Driven Insights: Who Are the Students?
The rigor of The Preparation Problem lies in its methodology. Utilizing QualtricsXM to distribute its survey, It’s On Us gathered data from a diverse cohort of more than 1,000 college-aged men. Notably, over 50% of the respondents identified as LGBTQ+, and more than one-third identified as Black.
This deliberate oversampling was not an accident. By focusing on these populations, the researchers were able to tease out how marginalized identities intersect with sex education. Previous studies have indicated that these groups often encounter unique barriers to accessing comprehensive health education, yet the findings in this report suggest that these students are often more attuned to the nuances of relationship dynamics than their peers.
The data reveals that when young men are provided with inclusive, comprehensive education—even outside the formal classroom—their ability to identify, intervene in, and prevent toxic or abusive situations increases significantly. Conversely, the report confirms that the more "siloed" or "abstinence-focused" a student’s prior education was, the more difficult they found it to engage with mandatory campus workshops on sexual assault.
Official Responses and the Call to Action
Tracey Vitchers, Executive Director of It’s On Us, has been a vocal proponent of moving the conversation "upstream."
"This research demonstrates that the work to prevent campus sexual assault starts long before students step onto a college campus," Vitchers stated during the release of the report. "It begins with the movies they watch, the conversations they have with trusted adults, the content of their health classes in school, and the many ways they learn about sex as they grow up."
Vitchers emphasized that the current system is not just failing to teach the "how-to" of sex; it is failing to teach the "how-to" of human connection. "It’s clear that the current system is failing young men," she added. "To set them up for success, we need to meet college men where they are with prevention programming that acknowledges their varying knowledge levels of topics like consent and sex."
The report outlines several key recommendations for policymakers and educators:
- Standardization of Curricula: Moving toward a national or state-level standard for comprehensive sexual health education that includes mandatory modules on consent, healthy communication, and digital safety.
- Mentorship Integration: Creating spaces where older, trusted male mentors can model healthy relationship behaviors for younger students.
- Adaptive Programming: Universities must stop treating prevention education as a "check-the-box" seminar and instead offer tiered programming that accounts for the fact that students arrive on campus with vastly different educational backgrounds.
The Implications for Campus Culture
The implications of The Preparation Problem are profound. If the foundational knowledge of what constitutes consent is not established by age 18, universities are tasked with a remedial effort that is often met with resistance or fatigue by the student body.
By identifying that the problem is rooted in a lack of preparation, It’s On Us is effectively calling for a bridge between K-12 educators and university administrators. This is a call for a unified, life-long approach to sexual health education that views the university experience as a continuation of a conversation, rather than a jarring introduction to one.
Furthermore, the report serves as a challenge to the media and corporate sectors. If pop culture remains the primary "sex ed" teacher for young men, then those industries must be held accountable for the scripts they provide. As the report suggests, the "content of their health classes" is just one part of a larger ecosystem of influence.
Looking Forward: A Path to Prevention
The findings in this report will serve as the cornerstone for the next phase of It’s On Us’s mission. The organization plans to use the data to develop new, highly targeted sexual assault prevention materials and trainings that can be deployed across their vast network of campus chapters.
By acknowledging that "prevention is a team sport," It’s On Us is signaling a departure from the adversarial models of the past. Instead of viewing young men solely as potential perpetrators or, conversely, as a group to be lectured, the organization is proposing a model where young men are active, informed, and empowered participants in the prevention of sexual violence.
As the academic year begins, the message to university administrators, school boards, and parents is clear: the safety of our campuses depends on the quality of our classrooms. We cannot expect students to thrive in a culture of respect and consent if we have not provided them with the vocabulary to define it.
The full report, "The Preparation Problem: How the System Ignores Young Men’s Sex Education Needs," can be accessed via the It’s On Us official website. As the nation continues to grapple with the prevalence of campus sexual assault, this research provides the necessary evidence to advocate for a more comprehensive, empathetic, and effective approach to the way we raise and educate the next generation.












